by Susan L. Hornik, for Match.com's Happen magazine

The star of Chuck talks about dating, relationship pacing - and whether or not you can be friends with exes.

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 Your character is on the geeky side, but that seems to be exactly what women want! What dating advice would you give to guys? |
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 Be yourself and tell the truth. It's not worth pretending to be somebody else to get a girl that you think you want. If she wants something that you're pretending to be, then she's not going to be happy when she finds out what she's got, you know? And you're not going to be happy, because what you really want is somebody cool sitting there and watching you play video games. Well, that's what I want! |
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 What do you look for in a girl? |
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 A good sense of humor, and hopefully, she's beautiful to me. Also, I'd like her to have a talent, whatever it is, and be passionate about it, because I think that's important. A woman needs to be motivated and driven. And her relationship with God - her faith - that is really big for me. |
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 Tell me about some of your dating experiences. |
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 Growing up, I was not like the guy who gets the girl. I was the guy who got the girl to come cry on his shoulder because the guy she had was treating her badly! I was the 'best friend' guy. A tough spot to be in when you're a guy who really wants the girl! But I feel like I've blossomed into more of a man, so that's good-and being an actor on a TV show doesn't suck dating-wise!
But it actually makes it difficult. You have to sift through and find the genuine hearts. At the end of the day, I just want to find love like anybody else, just like my character does, so we are very similar in that respect. |
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 Can you be friends with an ex? |
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 Absolutely. I'm friends with almost all my exes. I think you have to get to a place where, after the anger and the bitterness is over with, you realize we're just two people trying to make our way through life! |
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 Contributing entertainment editor Susan L. Hornik is based in Los Angeles. |
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