Dear Sugar & Spice ... I'm gay and I met this guy who I know is the one for me. We have been spending weekends together for the past month and have gotten to the point where we speak to each other daily. However, a couple days have passed that we haven't spoken. He hasn't tried to call me, but I tried calling him once -- but he was too busy to speak. So as of now, it's radio silent on both ends. Should I read anything into this? Do you think he's lost interest and has moved on?
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A Little Sugar
It's amazing you can utter 'he's the one for me' when you have had barely enough time to even memorize his cell phone number. Sure love is fun and it makes you say and do strange things early on, but eventually you become grounded again. Maybe this 'new love' caused you to call him one too many times -- making you appear desperate or maybe even pathetic. Try him one more time and, if no response, move on. You're bound to find this feeling again with someone else. Chime In | Meet Sugar
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A Lot of Spice
I'd be careful about making any assumptions based on his sudden unavailability. He might be thinking the same thing about you, seeing as how you haven't called him but once in the past couple of days. Don't waste any more time. Call him. Make plans to see him and reconnect with him. If he's the one for you, don't lose him because you're spending too much time analyzing the situation instead of living it. Chime In | Meet Spice