Dear Sugar & Spice ... I'm single and a junior in college. I go to school pretty far from home so I usually spend the holidays with my best friend and his family. The problem is his mom. She's HOT! I try to avoid her so my best friend doesn't know I think she's HOT, but now she's giving me the eye. She finds reasons for us to be alone and is always touching and flirting with me. I don't want to mess anything up, but seriously, my best friend's mom is so HOT. What should I do?
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A Little Sugar
You need to be hosed down since you're on the verge of crossing the line where best friends you will be no more. Actually, you've crossed the line with all the HOT references! No matter how hot your friend's mother is and the amount of tease she invokes, you need to distant yourself fast. You can do this, by avoiding her all together and spending the holidays elsewhere, like with your family where you're suppose to be. Get on a bus and get home to your family since you don't want to be known as the guy'nch who stole Christmas because you couldn't keep your present wrapped. Bow included!
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A Lot of Spice
What do you mean, what should you do? You should leave your best friend's momma alone and find a "hot" college girl to date, unless you don't mind losing your best friend, a place to stay during the holidays at the same time. You know, it always amazes me that no matter how many times men make the mistake of sleeping with a woman who is "off limits" to them, young, horny guys like you are still wondering what to do when they're in that situation. Look at it this way: At best, no one will find out you're the holiday boy toy, but that only guarantees you seasonal sex. At the very worst, your friend will kick your a$$, tell everyone on campus what kind of sleaze you are, and you won't be able to get a date with a "hot" college girl for the rest of your school career. Why risk it?