Dear Sugar & Spice ... I met a guy at the car wash who recently moved to the area for a one-year work assignment. He gave me his card and asked me to call him so I could show him around. I was a little excited because he seemed like a nice guy and it was a chance to make a new friend. After a couple of phone/email conversations, we decided to go out to dinner. Halfway through the meal, he decided it was the perfect time to layout his intentions. He wanted a relationship that was strictly sex. On top of that, he had a wife and child back home in Atlanta. I was pissed, got up and left the restaurant. Was he out of line for being so direct?
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A Little Sugar
This guy gets points for being honest and that's all he gets. What an offer! Did he tell you what comes with the mistress package? A car ... a house? How about his wife's diamond ring? Did he really think sex was going to be enough to make you happy? You should have countered his offer with a foot up his @#%@. There's one thing to be direct, but it's another to be direct and insulting -- to you and his family. This guy is bad news and, with your sudden restaurant departure, sent a clear signal that even being friends isn't an option. If he wants sex, tell him to buy a blowup doll. Chime In | Meet Sugar
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A Lot of Spice
Okay ladies, we've really got to make up our minds. On one hand, we want the guy to be honest with us, but then when he is, we're upset about what he says. He was in no way out of line for letting you know up front that he is looking for nothing more than a bed buddy. In fact, you should consider yourself lucky that you found this out on the first date. Fortunately, you weren't all caught up in his wit and charm for weeks before he revealed his true intentions. How many of you and your girlfriends have gone through that? In the future, don't get all upset about the crazy things men say since they are no reflection on you. Chime In | Meet Spice