Dear Sugar & Spice ... I recently went to a going away party with a friend of mine and, while I was there, I noticed this really attractive guy checking me out. Every time I looked up, there he was smiling at me. It turns out that he was there with his girlfriend. Regardless, he asked a friend of mine about me since he'd love to take me out. Would it be wrong to go out with him when I know he has a girlfriend? I don't know her and, obviously, he's not happy with her.
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A Little Sugar
Flirting with the occasional glance is fun and harmless, but it should stop there. Put yourself in his girlfriend's shoes, heels or whatever she wears. Would you like it if other women were moving in on your turf? Sure he may be unhappy with her, but the bottom line is he's still with her. Until they part ways, this dog is off limits. It's kind of like playing around with a married man except there's no ring. Tell him thanks, but he needs to finalize things on his end first before you'll even consider anything more. And if his eyes keep wandering, make it a point when he is with his girlfriend, that he might want to get his lazy eye looked at by a doctor. That will put him in check and his girlfriend will respect you for it. Chime In | Meet Sugar
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A Lot of Spice
Don't you just hate when that happens? Girl meets boy, boy has a girlfriend, but boy is "obviously" not happy with her because he's interested in you. Here's how you can really tell that a man isn't happy with his girlfriend -- he breaks up with her. Until that happens, you'll just be the chick on the side and why would you settle for that when there are so many other "completely" single guys available for you to choose from? Leave that woman's guy alone, and get your own.
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